I sent out my response a while back, but she included in her email: If you already responded, please ignore this email.” We had a local reception as well, and those were paper responses. However, one of my friend did send out a RSVP reminder via email about a week before her RSVPs were due. With online RSVP, you know immediately if someone responded to the invite. However, I think it’s a tad different when you’re doing paper replies, because the reply could be on its way in the mail when you send out the reminder. All of our RSVPs were done through our website for our Destination Wedding, so the website would automatically sent out reminders to RSVP to people that didn’t RSVP yet, starting a week before the deadline to those that didn’t RSVP, then 3 days, and then the day before, and then after the deadline. Well, I’m in the minority, I don’t think it’s rude to send out a reminder before the deadline. They have no excuse – at that point they must rsvp online. If his mom says “wait” then I will send her an updated rsvp list after I get the mail next Fri morning – AND I’m giving her a strict deadline by Sunday evening. I guess if anything – I have no problem nudging my fam and friends to remind them. What is your thought on this? While I agree, we gave people until 2 weeks before the actual wedding.we need to get seating/meals (which we have longer on meals for venue) but the cake situation is tight.she wants to know now! I’ve been to many weddings where the rsvp deadline is 1 month before, we sent them out on in early April which gave/gives people 4.5 weeks, they received Save the Dates in early January. He said that his mom might say “not okay to do until after rsvp date”. I told Fiance I wanted to give his mom their side and I’ll do my fam/friends and remind people starting Sunday or Monday to mail/reply online by Fri. As of this morning we have 65 of the 120 invitations we sent out (with 107 YES’s…couples/families/etc). 5/13, in one week, WHICH is two weeks before our wedding. Is it okay to remind guests to send in their RSVP’s for our wedding if we are 4-5 days from the deadline OR do we have to wait until after the RSVP deadline? My fiance says we need to wait until the rsvp deadline.
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